By Krishiv Shah
Syosset, NY—Thanksgiving—an integral part of American culture. Historically, it marks the 1621 feast shared by the Pilgrims of Massachusetts and the Wampanoag Native Americans, a celebration of the first successful harvest. In 1863, President Abraham Lincoln declared it a national holiday, and the name itself—Thanksgiving—represents giving thanks to those around us, often accompanied by a delicious meal. As a second-generation Indian-American immigrant, there are many American customs I have not fully assimilated into my life. Navigating between Indian culture and American culture often feels like trying to belong to both, but never fully fitting into either. This balance, though difficult, is something I’ve grown to appreciate.
Thanksgiving is one of the American holidays that I’ve embraced. I’ve come to realize that the true essence of the day is about gratitude, and it’s a message I can relate to, regardless of the way I celebrate. As a vegetarian, I don’t partake in turkey, but my version of Thanksgiving is no less meaningful. Over the years, I’ve spent a few Thanksgivings away from home—sometimes in New York City, other times in different states—but wherever I am, I try to make the day special in my own way. Thanksgiving for me isn’t entirely about the food—it’s about being with the people I’m thankful for, in places that hold meaning for me.
I cherish the time spent with extended family, many of whom I don’t get to see often, especially since so much of my family still lives in India. I’m grateful for their presence and for the connections we share, despite the distance. I use this time to rest and recharge, appreciating the rare break from the everyday grind. Most importantly, I reflect on my parents’ sacrifices, how they moved halfway across the world to give me the opportunities I have today—an education and a future here in the States.
Growing up, I often felt torn between two worlds. At school, my friends eagerly talked about Thanksgiving turkey and football games, while at home, we were immersed in Indian vegetarian dishes. But what I’ve come to understand is that, despite the differences in how we celebrate, the core idea of gratitude unites us all. It’s a reminder that no matter our background, we can find common ground in the simple act of giving thanks.
(Krishiv Shah, the founder and submission coordinator of Kaleidoscope, is an Indian-American senior at Syosset High School with aspirations to pursue a degree in South Asian Studies and Business.)
